Monday, November 3, 2008

Update on my Wife...

*UPDATE: Sorry friends that I have not even wrote the post yet about baby #3. I've been wanting to do it in a fun creative way and life got really crazy and now sickness. I'm glad Mike decided to put a picture up of a fibroid! PLEASE PRAY that this pain will go away. My mom flew here to help us and I don't know what I would do without her. I am going to my Dr. on Thursday so hopefully he can help us out as well instead of just the ER doctor. I have the best husband in the world. He has been there for me and the girls in amazing ways. Please, pray for this sweet baby. I don't know how he/she is making it with all the stress going on in my body. I am throwing up almost everything including vitamins. I am truly learning how to call out to Christ in the midst of my weakness. Thanks so much!

It has been a crazy couple of days. Many of you are probably wondering what has happened to my wife, so I'll explain, but let me first back up a few months. Last June we were at our church's family camp in Estes Park when my wife had some really bad back/abdominal pain and was throwing up quite a bit. We took her to the ER, they gave her lots of fluids, tons of pain medicine, and the pain went away. They said it might have been a kidney infection, but weren't sure. The pain eventually went away, and Holly was eventually able to enjoy the rest of the week. Friday morning pretty early the pain came back. She just happened to have some pretty stellar pain meds left over from her wisdom teeth taken out a couple months ago, so she took a pill and the pain went away, but if she got off the couch or out of bed she'd throw up. Friday she refused to see the doctor because the trip to the ER in Estes cost us $1500.00, and our insurance didn't cover it. She figured the pain would go away like it did in Colorado, and she would be back to normal. Saturday the pain was still there, but she's thinking it took two days in Estes for it to go away, and that she'd go see her doctor on Monday if the pain hadn't gone away. In the midst of all this we had a pretty big event with our high school ministry that I couldn't get away from, so we're still not sure how our kids survived during this time. Sunday morning I got in at 2:30 a.m. from our high school event, and then left at 6:30 a.m. to go run a half-marathon with about 4,000 other runners at White Rock Lake. Crazy, I know, but everyone in my house would be asleep right up until I got home from the race. It was good therapy in the middle of a crazy weekend. (this doesn't have anything to do with the reason of writing, but I ran a personal best, 1:52 after getting very little sleep, I was excited). So I get home, shower, and my wife's not feeling very well. So, I take the girls and we give mommy some alone time to continue to rest and she takes another pain pill. We had a lunch planned with some friends from church, so we went to their house and stayed until about 2:30. As we were leaving the Hornberger's house, Ellie is sitting in the car screaming about her ear. I rush her home and ask Holly what we should do. We load everyone up, and take Ellie to Urgent Care. On the way there, we pull over so Holly can puke. Crazy. We find out that Ellie has an Ear Infection, and get two prescriptions for her. We leave there and I've had enough, and take Holly to the Emergency Room. I'm glad we did. The ER doctor did an ultrasound, took over 40 pictures (according to Holly he was touching her ovaries with the ultrasound thingy, OUCH!) of the uterus, etc....We find out the baby is fine, but he has some concerns and wants to move Holly to the OB floor. This morning we find out that Holly has a baseball sized Fibroid (non cancerous) attached to her Uterus. That's what hurt so bad. The OB thinks that's what was hurting back in June in Estes Park. Crazy huh? It's grown to be the size that it is now, and nobody has ever picked up on it. At the end of this post I've put some info on Fibroids I found online if you're like me and have no idea what a Fibroid is. The Doctor tells Holly there's nothing they can do until after the baby is born. So the pain will come and go during the next 7 months, and he's prescribing some more pain medicine. We're supposed to leave on Friday for vacation, if you could pray for minimal pain/discomfort that would be great, and are obviously still thrilled that we'll be having a little one on June 10th!  One other thing I would mention that I learned during this time is how important community is.  I was dumb and didn't think to call our community group into this until yesterday afternoon.  Once I did it was a HUGE blessing.  All of the couples in our group either called or came by, and our friend Adam came over, watched our kids, and I was able to go to the hospital to be with my wife.  Thanks for reading and praying,  here's the info. on fibroids if you're still with me at this point :)
"Fibroids are muscular tumors that grow in the wall of the uterus (womb). Another medical term for fibroids is "leiomyoma" (leye-oh-meye-OH-muh) or just "myoma". Fibroids are almost always benign (not cancerous). Fibroids can grow as a single tumor, or there can be many of them in the uterus. They can be as small as an apple seed or as big as a grapefruit. In unusual cases they can become very large."

11 comments:

Tasha Via said...

First of all, HOW IN THE WORLD DID WE NOT KNOW YA"LL WERE PREGNANT AGAIN??? Congratulations. Mike, thanks for sharing this info. Holly, we're praying for you, the pain, the stress, the pregnancy, the new baby...
We love ya'll!!!

Nicole said...

We will be praying for Holly, I had no idea!! We wish we were coming closer to Dallas so we could see you this week. p.s. Justin told me about your new baby... congratulations!!

Kelly Via said...

Hey you guys! Just took some time to pray for you and for your new baby! Sorry to hear about the health issues...they are not fun at all!! I am so glad that you have some community around to help you guys out!

wes mcmurray said...

Congrats on the pregnancy! We'll be praying for you guys.

Stephanie said...

Ok, first things first, YOU'RE PREGNANT??? How did I not know this??? Congrats on baby #3, I think we need a formal announcement from Holly when she's feeling better! Of course I asked Travis if he knew this and he said, "whoops, I forgot to tell you!" He's known for like 3 weeks or something...figures. We're praying for you to get better Holly! Thanks for breaking the news Mike!

Barry Family said...

holly- WOW! I am praying for your pregnancy and your mental state at this time. It is amazing how those little miracles grow whenever you feel at your worst! God is SO BIG! Leslie Barry

Stacy said...

Hey guys!! Wow, so we're SO EXCITED that you're pregnant!!! June is a great month ;) We'll be praying for you all and Holly, your health and the baby's health too. We love you!

amy said...

i'm still in shock after mike's facebook comment, but this fills in the gaps!!! we're so excited for you guys and definitely praying that God will give Holly strength through these next months... and relief from the pain! congrats again!!

Katrina said...

Holly, I hope you are feeling better. Glad your mom is there to help

the broomes said...

...Number 3; WooooWHOOOO!!!! I am so excited for ya'll...but will also be diligently praying for you, Holly. We will pray for health and strength for you and this precious little one!

erynn said...

oh man. i hope you get better soon Holly. Let us know if the girls want to come play if you are ever sick. I'll keep you in my prayers.